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The Joyce and Horn Clauses and BC Child Custody and Guardianship 2009

There are two different sets of clauses that can be used to define child raising obligations in BC family law cases involving joint and shared custody and guardianship.  The first of these clauses gives the primary parent a final say or veto power if there is a family law dispute involving British Columbia child custody and guardianship.  This set of clauses is called the “Joyce” model joint guardianship clauses and the terms are as follows:


Joyce Clauses:  FINAL SAY

 

     1)  the parents are to be joint guardians of the estate of the child;

 

     2)  in the event of the death of either parent, the remaining parent will be the sole guardian of the person of the child;

 

     3)  the custodial parent, who has the primary responsibility for the day to day care of the child, will have the obligation to advise the other parent of any matters of a significant nature affecting the child;

 

     4)  the custodial parent will have the obligation to discuss with the other parent any significant decisions which have to be made concerning the child, including significant decisions concerning the health (except emergency decisions), education, religious instruction and general welfare of the child;

 

     5)  the parent who does not have custody will have the obligation to discuss the foregoing issues with the custodial parent and each parent shall have the obligation to try to reach agreement on those major decisions;

 

     6)  in the event that the parents cannot reach agreement with respect to any major decision despite their best efforts the custodial parent shall have the right to make such decisions;

 

     7)  the non-custodial parent shall have the right, under s. 32 of the Family Relations Act, to seek a review of any decision which that parent considers contrary to the best interests of the child;

 

     8)  each parent will have the right to obtain information concerning the child directly from third parties, including teachers, counselors, medical professionals, and third party care givers.



The second set of clauses give both parties an equal say on child custody decisions in British Columbia and this set of BC child joint guardianship clauses are called the “Horn” clauses:

 

The parents are to be joint guardians of the estate of the Children;


     i)  In the event of the death of either parent, the remaining parent shall be the sole guardian of the person of the Children;


     ii)  The Plaintiff and Defendant shall have the obligation to advise the other parent of any matters of a significant nature affecting the Children;


     iii)  The Plaintiff and Defendant shall have the obligation to discuss with the other parent any significant decisions which have to be made concerning the Children, including significant decisions concerning the health (except emergency decisions), education, religious instruction and general welfare of the Children;


     iv)  In the event that the parents cannot reach agreement with respect to any major decision despite their best efforts they are each at liberty to apply to Court;


     v)  Each Party shall have the right to obtain information concerning the Children directly from third parties, including teachers, counselors, medical professionals, and third party care givers;


     vi)  The Plaintiff and the Defendant shall make joint decisions concerning the education for the Children including choice of schools, instructors and tutoring;


     vii)  The Plaintiff and the Defendant shall be obliged to notify the other if an emergency arises regarding the Children;


     viii)  The Plaintiff and the Defendant shall first attempt mediation to resolve any disputes between them concerning the Children before applying to Court for a resolution.


If you have any questions on these clauses, please contact Lorne MacLean at 604-602-9000.

PARENTAL ALIENATION SYNDROME 2009 DEVELOPMENTS





BC FAMILY LAW AND CHILD CUSTODY –

PARENTAL ALIENATION SYNDROME 2009 DEVELOPMENTS

 

 

There have been a number of recent cases involving changing custody with the intention of preventing a child of separated parents from becoming alienated from one of their parents.  The most recent of these situations involved an Ontario Supreme Court decision in January of 2009. 

 

What criteria should you look for to determine if parental alienation syndrome – “PAS” – is occurring with your child?  The following are factors identified by Robert Gardner, the psychologist who coined the term, and summarized in an article by Dr. Reena Sommer, should raise alarm bells:

 

 

      

 

The alienating parent speaks badly or demeans the targeted parent directly to the children.

 

These disparaging comments made by the alienating parent to their children about the targeted parent can be implicit (“I am not sure I will be able to afford to send you to camp because “Mom” or “Dad” does not realize how much you enjoy it,”) or explicit (“Mom/Dad” left us because he/she never cared enough about you to keep our family together”).

      

 

The alienating parent speaks badly or demeans the targeted parent to others in the presence (or within audible distance) of the children.

     

 

The alienating parent discusses with the children the circumstances under which the marriage broke down and blames the targeted parent for its failure.

    

 

The alienating parent exposes the children to the details of the parents' ongoing conflict, financial problems and legal proceedings.

      

 

The alienating parent blames the targeted parent for changes in lifestyle, any current hardships, his/her negative emotional state, and inability to function as before and conveys this to the children.

     

 

Allegations of sexual, physical and emotional abuse of children are often made.

    

 

Alienated children come to know that in order to please the alienating parent, they must turn against the targeted parent.


The writer’s experience in BC, backed up by most psychologists who deal with this problem, is that PAS does not get better on its own and, invariably, time is always on the side of the alienating parent.

Immediate action needs to be taken and options to stop or, failing that, to at least curb or minimize the destruction could include:

 

1.  Increasing the child’s time with the non-alienating or “friendly parent” under the principle of giving custody to the parent who will encourage rather than discourage maximum contact with the other parent.  I routinely ask for at least a 50/50 shared custody arrangement with restrictions on parents speaking ill of the other.

 

2.  Removing custody of the child from their alienating parent and giving sole custody to the other just as what happened in an Ontario Court decision involving a mother who provoked fights and called the police, who made false allegations of sexual abuse against the father, and who consistently bad mouthed the father.

 

3.  Barring contact with the child by the alienating parent unless it’s in a therapeutic setting.

 

4.  Fining a parent who has purposefully been alienated a child from the other parent.

 

5.  Requiring the children attend counseling with a competent therapist who

specializes in reintegration.

 

If you feel you are a victim of PAS or that you see warning signs that such behaviour is being directed at your child, call us immediately.

Holidays tough on separated families

Well-written article in the Bozeman Daily Chronicle on strategies for divorced parents to work out a holiday visitation schedule that minimizes the stress on the children.  See the article here.

Thank you to the Sherman & Jeffries blog on Alabama family law for alerting me to the article.

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Our law firm handles only BC Family Law and BC Divorce Law matters including BC child custody cases as well as BC child support, spousal support and property division cases. Our new website at www.bcfamilylaw.ca provides information and a cutting edge access program for our clients to view their files for free 24/7. We believe it is important to keep the public advised of BC family law cases.

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